A Letter From Willa

Written by Willa W.

Image Credits: Axios - Photograph by Allie Carl

Hey everyone, 

I want to discuss a really important topic in my life, which is the issue of having access to gender affirming care. I would like to preface this by saying that I am no expert in this field. What I am sharing comes from my own experience as a trans person, as well as what I have learned through word of mouth and research. These solutions are not universal, but they may help some of you receive the supportive, safe care you need. If you have questions or concerns, I highly encourage you to do research on your own and decide what works best for you, given where you live and the community you are in. 

After Trump’s recent actions against gender affirming care by signing an executive order that withholds funds from participating hospitals, many trans people understandably feel scared, frustrated, or confused. While these are challenging times to navigate as a transgender person, it is more critical now than ever for us to come together and share resources. One organization I have had the privilege of volunteering for is OutCare, a group that works to help LGBTQ+ identifying folks find gender affirming healthcare. Their website has features that allow you to input your location and the specialty you are interested in, and OutCare will provide a comprehensive list of eligible doctors. This resource is especially useful if you live in a conservative state where the stigma and legislation around gender affirming care make it increasingly difficult to get the medical attention you need. 

But sometimes, if you live in a more rural location, the nearest affirming doctor might be a long trip away, such that the journey is simply unfeasible. Another way to get around Trump’s policies is to meet online via telehealth. Telehealth makes it possible to meet privately with providers across state lines who, at the very least, will be able to answer questions, assist with referrals, and help guide you through the next steps of your medical needs. If you successfully arrange a meeting, some key concerns to bring up are whether they keep their records private, how their work is impacted by state-level bans, if and how they will continue to care under political pressure, and what recommendations they have. 

It's important to note that while these national changes are being taken into effect, they are not all immediate. It often takes time, sometimes even years, before an executive order is actually implemented. I’m not bringing this up to make light of the situation, but I do think it's important to keep in mind. 

Lastly, I know that the news recently is devastating, but it's crucial to keep your head up. I know that sounds cheesy and maybe even impossible, but staying true to yourself and finding ways to engage in a supportive environment (either online or in person) is extremely valuable for your mental health. Being transgender myself, right-wing extremism is really damaging to my sense of self. I encourage everyone reading this, regardless of their gender identity, to do their best to care for each other and create a safe space amid all the chaos. Collectively, we have survived systemic attacks before, and I know we will be triumphant again. Please take care of yourself, and know that you are not alone in this.

With gratitude, 

Willa